YES, of course I can

I'm one of those people who say YES way too quickly. I hardly ever say no, unless it to the children and then I have no problem saying no...hmmm...nope, I think that is incorrect. I say no and then I feel guilty about saying no.

Whenever anyone asks me something I always say yes and then mark it down on the calendar. I don't care if I'm overbooked I just tell them that I will make it happen. I don't know how I make it happen but it usually all works out.

Yet, when it comes time to do things, I wish I had said NO. Don't get me wrong. I love my friends and my family but I just feel I say YES way too often.

If I ever tell my friends no I feel HORRIBLE afterwards and try to think of a way to say YES. I feel guilty. I honestly don't think my friends mind if I say no and I don't think they would ever really get mad at me if I did say no but just the fact I have to say it kills me! My friends never have to guilt me because I do enough of that on my own!

I don't know why I had to post about that but I just felt the urge. I guess I couldn't even tell myself NO!